Social networks
How to run a small social network site for your friends is a neat guide. I like AT Protocol & Nostr and hope they succeed.
It's hard to appreciate just how bad it is to centralize the common people's town square where anyone can voice their opinion is. Right now, the most popular options for such a place are all governed by a set of rules that can be changed on a whim by few people only, sometimes only one. More often, what's written in the rules is not being followed too and there is no way to argument against your account being deleted or shadow banned by the network.
One other thing such centralization of authority brings, is that social networks can start collaborating with oppressive governments in the name of 'free speech'.
The only way you can have a social network that works for everyone is for it to be decentralized. Something akin to Mastodon where each instance has its own rules and pays for its own compute. You can federate with any server you like and can't be blocked out of a service with all the history deleted just on a whim.
Decentralization has big challenges to solve before it can compete with likes of Twitter. Compute has to be paid off by users using the network. UX should abstract the notion of servers and federation so the experience is like on Twitter, create account, start creating posts. On Mastodon, you have to first choose a server and most just choose the official server for obvious reasons.
I am personally trying to make Mastodon work whilst still staying on Twitter as that's where the conversation is still happening.
Farcaster & Bluesky seem promising too.
Whatever the new social network is, it has to be open source and be a protocol with a viable plan for moderating and customizing your experience on the network.
All valuable data posted on any of the networks is ultimately transferred and linked in my knowledge base.
Starting social networks is hard. I liked steps Gas app took too reach virality.
Notes
- Facebook has recruited one of the world’s top AI teams, led by Yann LeCun. Their work and Google's are the equivalent of tobacco companies engineering cigarettes to ensure that nicotine hits a smoker's brain more quickly. Facebook and other social networks are the cigarette companies of the mind. Cigarettes blackened our lungs with tar, and social media blacken our brains with distraction, alienation, envy, and loneliness.
- Social media networks will become ever more addictive, and by using AI to increase the click-through rate on the ads, they will squeeze ever more money out of their addicts. AI will be essential to the "capture and sale of attention," as Tim Wu puts it, walking users from curiosity to the cash register more and more efficiently.
- Capitalism is an accelerant for addictive behavior, and we are only just realizing how unhappy people become as a result of the marketplace’s newest and most insidious products. What's worse, the necessary functions performed by our phones and the Internet are fatefully tangled with the apps that addict us. They put the heroin next to the tap water.
- FB simply prolonged relationships that should’ve died out a long time ago naturally
- Generally you'd lose contact with all these people over time as you mature and just naturally drift apart. No shame in that, the ones you do want to keep in touch with you'd make a real effort for. Now it's so easy to just send a "like" , "congratulations!" or "Happy birthday!" that you find yourself very loosely connected to a bunch of people you don't want to be but feel like everyone else is still in "contact" so you don't want to miss out.
- When you realize that Instagram is someones curated life, you realize how manufactured their profile actually is. What you see is what they want you to see.
- The sad truth is that friendly face isn’t Facebook’s true face; it’s a sham, just like it’s a sham to sit on a tractor so people will think you’re tall. Mark Zuckerberg uses your most intimate connections, the literal faces of the people you love, to fool you into thinking that he’s not picking your pocket and taking a wrecking ball to our media, to the integrity of our society, and to democracy itself.
- I gained a following in part because developers with larger followings would share my work. If you have a large following I highly encourage you to share the work of other creators! It costs nothing to share a blog or video but can make a huge difference to that creator!
- Moderating a community is not censorship.
- Facebook knew its algorithm incentivized outrage. Instagram knew it hurt teen girls. Facebook has been shielding VIPs from moderation.
- The thing people don't see is that the problem isn't centralization, it's social media. Your decentralized social media will still be social media.
- I wonder how much any Facebook story now changes anyone's minds. There’s a group of people now quite convinced that Facebook is evil, who see any new story as proof, and the rest of us, who think it's all just a noisy mess. But what would change look like?
- FB (and social media generally) is amplifying the flaws in the human condition.
- The main benefit of taking a break from social media is that you stop living in a fictional world and finally start dealing with your own reality.
- Instead of asking “how will you make money?” Or with NFTs “how much money are you making right now buying and selling into the hype?”, please ask “how does this lead to deep habitual usage?”
- Social networks usage destroy attention span for many
- The greatest business you can build is one that helps people feel loved and doing so in a financially sustainable way.
- WhatsApp communication being blocked in Iran as protests against oppressive regime take place.
- The key to the internet is to fully own what you love, regardless of what it is, and share it without shame.
Links
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- Reinvent the social web - André Staltz (2018)
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- Timeliner - All your digital life on a single timeline, stored locally.
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- Sherlock - Find usernames across social networks.
- Mark Zuckerberg discussing future journalism platform with Mathias Döpfner (2019)
- Sherlock - Find usernames across social networks.
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- Jack Dorsey Wants to Decentralize Twitter (HN)
- tilde.club - Not a social network it is one tiny totally standard unix computer that people respectfully use together in their shared quest to build awesome web pages.
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- Pleroma - Free, federated social networking server built on open protocols. (Article) (HN) (Lobsters) (Deploy a Pleroma Server) (Docker Code)
- Moa - Mastodon, Twitter, and Instagram Cross-poster.
- Lessons I've Learned After Gaining 100,000 Twitter Followers (2020)
- Bridgy - Connects your web site to social media. Likes, retweets, mentions, cross-posting, and more.
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- Auralite - New social network for the future. (Tweet)
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- Instagram Morphs into an Information Powerhouse (2020) (HN)
- Proof of X (2020)
- TikTok and the Sorting Hat (2020) (HN)
- How to run a small social network site for your friends (Lobsters) (HN) (Tweet) (HN)
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- Wisdom Shelf - Social network focused on personal development.
- Relevant - Social Network Built On Trust.
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- Books and resources to read to learn more about challenges of social networks
- How TikTok's design makes the algorithm work (2020) (HN)
- Is this real life? (2020)
- Social Cooling - Big Data's unintended side effect. (HN)
- What Is Social Cooling? (2017) (HN)
- Gurlic - Free and Open Communities. (HN) (Web tech used)
- Twt - New way to social media.
- Going Viral as a Woman in Tech (2020) (HN)
- Why Social Media Is So Good at Polarizing Us (2020) (Tweet)
- Party at My House: Darius Kazemi on Human-Scaled Social Media (2020)
- Clusters rule everything around me (2020) (HN)
- The political economy of platforms (2020)
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- LinkedIn’s Alternate Universe (2020) - How the professional platform makes networking weird. (HN)
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- Orbit Model - Framework for building high gravity communities. A high gravity community is one that excels at attracting and retaining members by providing an outstanding member experience. (Why Orbit is Better Than Funnel for Developer Relations)
- Why your Instagram Engagement Kinda Sucks Right Now (2020)
- Most of what you read on the internet is written by insane people (2018) (HN)
- Social Analyzer - Find a person's profile across 350 social media sites. (HN)
- Ask HN: What are decentralized Twitter alternatives? (2021)
- Ask HN: Who is working on fully decentralized social networking? (2021)
- My personal wishlist for a decentralized social network (HN)
- Myrme - Prosocial network. (Article)
- Martin Kleppman: Decentralized content moderation (2021)
- Hypergrowth Network - Get advice from the best go-to-market leaders in tech.
- CTZN - Distributed social network. Twitter-style feed and posts.
- FeoBlog - Distributed blogging platform. It takes a lot of its inspiration from Mastodon and Scuttlebutt.
- Creeping as a Service (HN)
- TikTok and the Network Effects of Creativity (2021)
- Zenly - Live map of your friends and family. (GitHub)
- He got Facebook hooked on AI. Now he can't fix its misinformation addiction (2021) (Tweet)
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- How Clubhouse the "next big thing going to fail (2021) (HN)
- Osintgram - OSINT tool on Instagram. Offers an interactive shell to perform analysis on Instagram account of any users by its nickname.
- How Polarization Ate Our Brains (2021)
- The Crypto Social Network is Here. Meet BitClout. (2021)
- The Ponzi Career (2021) - Future of work is a pyramid scheme, where every person sells his favorite person to the next person. (HN)
- Is content moderation a dead end? (2021) (HN)
- Sophie Zhang, Facebook whistleblower AMA (2021) (HN)
- LinkTalk, a Network for Thoughtful Conversations (2021)
- Better alternatives to LinkedIn (2021)
- Polywork - Professional network that represents all the wonderful things you actually do as a professional.
- Granary - Fetches and converts data between social networks, HTML and JSON with microformats2, ActivityStreams 1 and 2, Atom, RSS, JSON Feed, and more. (Code)
- Garnet - One app to unite your community.
- The Anxiety of Influencers (2021) - Educating the TikTok generation. (HN)
- Genies - Custom 3D Avatars For Consumers and Celebrities.
- Tiktok, Emergent Creativity, The Limits of Social Graphs (2021)
- Inside the Bubble at Facebook
- The Cold Start Problem Book (2021) - How to start and scale network effects. (Tweet) (Notes)
- The Great Online Game (2021) (Tweet)
- Redact - Mass Delete your Social Media. (HN)
- How to build communities to build better products?
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- Status, Wealth, & Power: Network Effects Demand A New Social Contract (2021)
- Этические социальные сети c @sitnik (2021)
- Content density: Why TikToks trounce Stories (2020) (Tweet)
- The End of Social Media (2021) (HN)
- HN: FB messenger silently censoring links, claims they were sent (2021)
- EagleEye - Stalk your Friends. Find their Instagram, FB and Twitter Profiles using Image Recognition and Reverse Image Search.
- How social learning amplifies moral outrage expression in online social networks (2021) (Tweet)
- Facebook knows Instagram is toxic for teen girls, company documents show (2021) (HN)
- Reasons To Quit Social Media (2021) (HN)
- Decentralized Social Networking Protocol (DSNP)
- Facebook is other people (HN)
- What our research says about teen well-being and Instagram (2021) (HN)
- You either die an MVP or live long enough to build content moderation (2021) (HN)
- Facebook Thrives on Criticism of “Disinformation” (2021) (HN)
- Facebook's Latest Scandals: The Banality Of Hubris; The Messiness Of Humanity (2021) (Tweet)
- Facebook whistleblower says she wants to fix company, not harm it (2021) (HN) (Opening statement)
- Facebook Whistleblower Leaks Thousands of Pages of Incriminating Internal Docs (2021) (HN) (HN) (Tweet)
- Statement from Mark Zuckerberg (2021) (HN) (Tweet)
- Bombshell (2021) - Instagram's suicide farm, media distortion, and navigating three weeks of Facebook hysteria. (Tweet)
- Pinterest - Image sharing service. (GitHub)
- Fast Facebook Activity Deletion - Clean up a Facebook account without deleting the entire account.
- And you will know us by the company we keep (2021) (HN)
- Unique on Facebook: Formulation and Evidence of (Nano)targeting Individual Users with non-PII Data (2021) (Tweet)
- Facebook Papers: ‘History Will Not Judge Us Kindly’ (2021)
- In many parts of the world, Facebook IS the internet (2021)
- Feedless - Non-addictive social network. (Code)
- How Instagram and Twitter buried the hatchet (2021)
- A Beginner's Guide to Social Media Verification (2021)
- The benefits of staying off social media (2021) (HN)
- Racket - Audio twitter. (Twitter) (Tweet)
- Junto - Evolution of social media begins with redesigning the fundamentals. (GitHub)
- Dito - Design your post once then apply the same design for Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and Pinterest in one click.
- Circles - Private app for the most important people in your life. (HN)
- Most things shared are a lie or can be completely unverifiable in times of conflict (2022)
- Sterra - Instagram OSINT tool to export and analyze followers | following with their details.
- One App – Two Worlds: This Is TikTok in Russia and Ukraine (HN)
- instauto - Instagram bot / automation library written in JavaScript for Node.js.
- Thoughts on free speech with respect to social networks (Twitter/Reddit) (HN)
- Slow Social - Social network built for friends, not influencers. (HN)
- Why the Past 10 Years of American Life Have Been Uniquely Stupid (2022) (Tweet)
- Radiopaper - Troll-resistant public conversations. (HN)
- Making friends on the internet (2022) (HN)
- Teen mental health is plummeting and social media is a major contributing cause (2022) (HN)
- Ask HN: Has social media reached its saturation point? (2022)
- Trust and safety research is hard
- Ourspace - Decentralized social networks and reputation systems.
- Tim Urban on political discourse + Keith Rabois on early-stage investing in 2022
- instantgram - Bookmarklet for download photos in Instagram.
- Farcaster - Sufficiently decentralized social network. It is an open protocol that can support many clients, just like email. (Twitter) (Article) (Farcaster Search) (Farcaster Search Code) (Article) (Protocol) (Hub Code) (Rust client) (JS client) (Awesome)
- retrospring - Q/A based social network. (Code)
- Movim - Social and chat platform that act as a web frontend for the XMPP protocol. (Code)
- cohost - New social media platform built from the ground up. (Twitter)
- TikTok and the Fall of the Social-Media Giants (2022) (HN)
- The unlikely odds of making it big on TikTok (2022) (HN)
- Is this the end of social networking? (2022) (HN)
- Due to social media people no longer want to go through the stages of life
- The AT Protocol - Bluesky - Networking technology created by Bluesky to power the next generation of social applications. (Tweet) (Article) (HN)
- Facebook was not originally created to be a company
- Meower: Social Network for Cats - Code for the Building a Microservices Application in Go Following the CQRS Pattern article.
- Moderation is different from censorship (2022) (HN)
- CommunityRule - Governance toolkit for great communities. (HN)
- instadiff-cli - Command line tool for managing Instagram account followers and followings.
- Homebrew social networking (2022)
- What is Good Within Social Networks (2022) (Tweet) (Notes)
- Instagram Is Over (2022) (HN)
- A community isn’t a garden, it’s a bar. (2022)
- Native internet protocol for social media (2022) (Arguments against)
- Ask HN: How might HN build a social network together? (2022)
- Beluga - Publishes your posts to a JSON/RSS feed and a simple static site on the open Web.
- NodeInfo - Standardized way to expose metadata about an installation of a distributed social network.
- folkvangr - Decentralized network based on Social Graph theory.
- Ask HN: Techwise, how did TikTok get so good? (2023)
- Highest earning YouTubers from every country in the world
- Social media is a cause, not a correlate, of mental illness in teen girls (2023) (HN)
- Ask Dang: What tools do you use for moderating HN? (2023)
- First Impressions of Bluesky's Brand New iOS App (2023) (HN)
- Enola Holmes - Modern shiny CLI tool written with Go to help you: Hunt down social media accounts by username across social networks.
- Kards - Open source social media platform. (Code)
- Module to access TikTok Private API
- DetectDee - Hunt down social media accounts by username, email or phone across social networks.
- Ask HN: Do you think the future of social media looks like Discord/Reddit? (2023)
- Meta preps new social app (2023) (HN)
- Jonline - Federated gRPC social network implemented in Rust/Tonic/Diesel with both Flutter and React.
- Why did the #TwitterMigration fail? (2023)
- Threads
- How Threads Works - Reverse-engineering Instagram's Threads private APIs.
- simplex - CLI tool that lets you post on Twitter, Mastodon and Bluesky with a single command.
- Where do you discuss computer related stuff now? (2023) (HN)