Habits
I try to cover essential morning/day/evening habits I have. Every day, without exceptions.
I am currently building my own app to make sure I keep track of the habits I have.
Habits in general help guide myself towards living more happy. Habits are chosen with care and adapted with experience. They should be quite lightweight in that I can follow the habits no matter where I am in the world, even if away from home.
In the past I used used Streaks app. With which I made sure to complete my 6 daily habits.
I got a notification every day at 19:00 on my phone to complete the habits.
Habits described
Cardio / Weights
autofilled through my health data. It includes workout minutes from running/cycling & bodyweight/lifting workouts. Bodyweight/lifting is tracked with Strong, Streaks Workout, Fitbod or Down Dog apps.
Activity rings
autofilled through my health data and is marked as done when all the ring goals are complete. My current calorie goal is ~ 700 calories with fixed 50 min workout & 12H standing goals.
Health | Clean
marked as done when I drank mostly water & tea with limited coffee (if any, as I often get attention crashes after). I also ate only/primarily nutritious whole foods (nuts/veggies/fruits/..) with focus on completing my micro & macro nutrient goals. I also kept my skin clean and washed/smelled well throughout the day.
Focus | Impact
marked as done when I was not distracted by anything during the day (went through my todos one by one) (no analytics & pointless time wasters). I worked on my goals & used time wisely. I was calm, mindful and happy.
Happy | Open / Kind
marked as done when all/most of my values and rules were held well. I showed love to people I care about & myself (true love & letting go of any mistake/accident). I made new things and shared them. I was myself & unafraid of anything. Happiness is often a side effect of a nice day.
Plan | Journal
marked as done when I made a plan for tomorrow and reflected on the day in my journal. Writing helps me clear up my mind and clean up life and my thinking. Planning includes: 1. Calendar check. 2. Tasks (for next day, especially important to define the first task!). Everything is planned as per the week goals.
New habits
I try learn new habits proactively by building systems and thought processes that lead me in directions I want to go. Everything is built around well defined rules & processes.
Notes
- I think learning how to break habits is actually a very important meta skill and can serve you in life almost better than anything else.
- Tiny friction goes a long way. To create healthy behavior, start with healthy defaults.
- I think we go through life in a mentally linear way but our life is actually a repeating fractal spiral. It is not until we wake up and become a 3D person in a 2D world we are able to see our behavioral patterns. Only then can we step aside or over some of the repeating problems we have been having issues with. Most of my profound psychedelic realizations are involving me "waking up" like this. With enough quality data on yourself, you can begin to identify the loops you speak of. And the crazy thing is that all of your behaviors is connected in wild ways, that is once you start to chart it all out.
- If I want to improve at anything, I have a fixed approach. I call it the 30-for-30 plan: The structure is simple: 30 days. 30 minutes per day.
- One thing that helps with starting new habits is to just show up. So if you have 'do exercises' as habit. Actually go and physically show up to the place you do exercises in and stay there until you actually start doing the habit you set out to do.
Links
- Ask HN: Is there a new habit you cultivated recently that is really paying off? (2018)
- Habits vs. Goals: A Look at the Benefits of a Systematic Approach to Life
- How a Lazy Bitch like me learned to be Productive (2020) (HN)
- 14 Habits of Highly Productive Developers (HN)
- Ask HN: What’s your daily/weekly routine? (2020)
- The Proof - Wellness Advice from World-Class Founders.
- Make your habits zero-effort
- Atomic Habits - Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results. (Summary) (Summary) (HN)
- Kin - Social Habit Tracker.
- In praise of habits (HN)
- dijo - Scriptable, curses-based, digital habit tracker.
- Harsh Taskmaster - Habit tracking for geeks. A minimalist, command line tool for tracking and understanding your habits.
- How habits form backed by research
- Ask HN: How do you organize your routine? (2022)
- Have any of you picked up a habit after reading about it in a book?
- What is a good habit you wish you had adopted when you were younger?
- Ask HN: How to do that you need to do but not motivated at all? (2022)
- Ask HN: Habits that have improved your life in many dimensions (2023)
- David Lynch | Routine & Creativity
- Why 'Atomic Habits' may not be working for you (2023) (HN)